The Dream

I just read this quote:


“if you don’t build your dream, someone else will hire you to help build theirs”


It hits home. Currently working to open a business, my husband has been working hard for others all his life and always wanted to run his own show. It has been hard to say the least however slowly but surely things are moving along and we hope to be open for business by mid August. Whilst working and looking around for the ideal place has been a long and dwindling road I must admit I was skeptical at 1st. Not in his capability of running a business in food. But I was one who would much rather work and be paid then have to stress about the ins and outs of everything that has to do with running a take away.

But then when push came to shove and my husband had found THE Place. He was uncertain to take that final step. Although he would never admit it openly, he was afraid. He needed that push, someone to tell him go for it you can do this. My skeptical opinions flew out the window once I saw the place and I knew this was the time to push him out of his comfort zone and make him go for it. I always knew he would be great at running his take away. He is great with people and his food has always been to die for. This is his dream. And it has become my dream. And We are going to make it happen..

I will also admit that so far it has been difficult. Waiting for permits, trying to buy machinery, paying the rent, choosing the suppliers. But I know that in a year or two years time, this WILL be all worth and it our hard work WILL pay off. I will stand by his side and I know he appreciates what I’ve done as I appreciate him. He doesn’t need to say it. We have reached a point in our lives where words are not needed.




What girlfriends think they do!?

Paranoid much?!

Why do We try and sneak into his Facebook account? Why don’t We trust him? I think the real issues are not “what are they up to?” But rather “why do we think they are up to something?”

Lets face it.. We all know someone who has been cheated on, or lied to, or stabbed in the back right? But should all these horror stories really affect us that much that we find ourselves trying to figure out their passwords and become qualified stalkers/hackers?

The answer should be NO. I would like to think that we have enough confidence to trust that they will come back to us, that we are worth it. Sadly, this is not always the case.. I for one am guilty as charged for being overly paranoid.

And you know what the worst thing about it is? They aren’t going to leave us because they where up to something or because they found someone else.. They are going to leave us because we are overbearing bordering crazy. There is a fine line between jealousy and paranoia and we must remember not to cross this line..

At the end of the day he is with you because he wants to be. Not because he has to be. Let him have his time without you. It will make the time you spend together all the better.image

There don’t hav…



There don’t have to be harps playing or birds singing or pose petals falling from the sky… And there are definitely days when the romance is dead. But if you look around, things are pretty amazing. So stop for a second. Enjoy the beauty. Feel the magic. Drink it in. ‘Cause it won’t last forever. The romance will fade. Things will happen. People will change. Love will die. But… maybe not today.